O, to be known. Do you remember the show Cheers from the 80’s?  The one with the theme song “Where Everybody Knows Your Name”?  The idea being that this bar, Cheers, was a place that you could go and be known and know you’re not alone.  Isn’t that what we all want?  We want to be known and loved.  We want to know that people think of us. That they love us.  They want to hang out with us.  They enjoy our relationship. If you think like me, once we say yes we want to be known, then suddenly, we pull back. Our thoughts become less warm and fuzzy.  What…